My 10-year-old daughter used to cry every time she came home from her grandparents’ house. I hid a recorder — and when I heard the full truth, I was shocked…
I am Meera, 35 years old, and I live in an apartment in Mumbai with my husband Arjun and our young daughter Ananya. To me, Ananya is my whole world — obedient, bright in her studies, and very affectionate. But as she grew older, she started having more and more things she found difficult to share with her mother.
And then, one day, I realized: I had caused her far more pain than I ever imagined.
It all started when Arjun began taking Ananya to her grandparents’ house in Thane — his parents — on weekends. Initially, I thought it was a good thing. Her grandmother needed her company too. But lately, every time Ananya returned home, she was unusually quiet.
One day, she went straight to her room and buried her face in the pillow, crying.
I asked her what was wrong. She just shook her head and said:
— “I’m fine… don’t worry.”
I asked Arjun, but he snapped:
— “You overthink everything. A little crying is normal for kids. Don’t make a big deal out of it.”
Yet my mother’s intuition told me something was wrong. I decided to do something I still shudder to remember.
The next day, before my daughter left with Arjun to go to Thane, I quietly hid a small voice recorder in her bag. My hands were trembling as I zipped it closed, my heart pounding. Part of me felt guilty for being suspicious. But another part of me needed to know the truth.
That afternoon, Ananya came home and cried again. I hugged her, pretending I knew nothing.
When she fell asleep, I turned on the voice recorder.
What I heard left me speechless.
Her grandmother’s voice was harsh, tinged with Marathi:
— “This girl is just like your mother. What kind of woman can’t even give birth to a boy? If she doesn’t study hard enough to earn good money, throw her away!”
Ananya’s voice was choked with emotion:
— “I… I’ll try. Please don’t hate me…”
My heart shattered.
A ten-year-old child — why should she have to endure such cruelty?
Then came Arjun’s cold voice:
— “You’re right. She’s just a girl. What’s the point of raising her if she’s going to get married anyway? Don’t spoil her too much.”
Tears streamed down my face. I was shaking.
The man I trusted the most — the father of my child — was not only indifferent, but complicit in letting our daughter be emotionally ab:u:sed.
I sat by her bed, watching her tear-streaked face.
My heart was filled with sorrow and rage. By day, she smiled and spoke to me as if everything was fine… but behind my back, she was bearing the weight of rejection from her own family.
The next morning, I requested Arjun to sit down in the living room. I placed the recorder on the table and pressed play.
The voices echoed through the dark room. Arjun’s face went pale.
I looked him straight in the eyes and said:
— “Is this what you call ‘normal’? She’s only ten! She needs love — not rejection.”
Arjun stammered:
— “I… I just wanted her to become stronger…”
I gave a sad smile:
— “You make a child strong by making her feel unloved? Do you even realize how much she cries every time she comes back from your parents’ house?”
He was silent, his head hung low. For the first time, I saw shame in my husband’s eyes.
That night, I hugged my daughter and said:
— “Anu, I know you’ve been through so much. You don’t have to carry this weight. Be true to yourself — I’m always here for you.”
She was stunned — and she then burst into tears.
— “Mom… I thought you wouldn’t believe me. I was afraid that telling you would only make you sad…”
I held her tightly. In that moment, I realized:
The greatest pain my daughter suffered was having to go through it alone.
From that day on, I vowed she would never go to her paternal grandparents’ house again. I told Arjun’s family in Thane: if you still have a bias against girls, then please leave me and my daughter alone.
I also reached out to a child psychologist in Bandra to help relieve the pressure on my daughter.
For me — a mother living in the heart of busy Mumbai — nothing is more important than raising my child in love.
The truth revealed by the voice recorder created a rift in our family, but it also made one thing crystal clear:
A daughter’s tears should never be ignored.